Get Connected by Giving

I hate money. While I enjoy the pleasures that come from what money can buy (as my indulgences in coffee, dining out, and computers will testify), there ?s just too much effort that must go into making money, tracking money, and even spending money. I know that there ?s more than a bit of laziness in my attitude: it ?s difficult to figure out money, so I just try to avoid it.

The hard reality is that money is a necessary tool that we must use wisely or it can hurt us. Another hard reality, specifically here at Memorial, is that while there are a few areas where we could cut back more in our spending, we ?re at a point where the effort to save our nickels and dimes is becoming counterproductive. To put it bluntly, the bigger problem we are facing is that we are not giving in such a way that would indicate we are a healthy body.

Without trying to launch a guilt trip or to call attention to anyone ?s financial stability, let ?s consider together, as a body, how we can get connected by giving. First, we get connected to God through giving because it recognizes that everything we have comes from God (James 1:17). Second, we get connected to each other through giving because we develop the attitude that the first church had; Acts 4:32 says that ?All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they shared everything they had. ?

It ?s no secret that our region, and by extension our families and our church family, is facing tough times. And it ?s easy to go into ?cutback mode, ? but let ?s not lose sight of the eternal significance of even our monthly bills. Because we are connected as one body, because we must be ?one in heart and mind, ? we share the responsibility of supporting the body by giving our money. It may be more difficult for some of us than others, but let ?s take Paul ?s advice in 1 Timothy 6:17 and not put our hope in money, which is uncertain, but put our hope in God ?who richly provides us with everything. ?

Tell Us Your Story!

The sermon from Sunday, March 2, 2008, encouraged us to think about our own before-and-after faith story. The idea is to write down a simple story about your faith (what you were like before you came to Christ, how you came to faith in Him, and what you are like after that decision).

We have allowed folks who are registered to sign in and share their story and to comment about other people’s stories. Since this is meant to be an experience to help each other share our faith with other people, please focus on encouraging each other.

Remember: keep it brief, humble, easy to understand ? and real!

Please try to limit your faith story to about 100 words.

Get Connected in Support

I have to admit that I ?m still somewhat sore from our trip to Louisiana. While I know what it means to put in a full day of physical labor, my knowledge is more anecdotal, as my daily work involves me being a ?mouse jockey. ? In all honesty, I was out of my league as we worked with IDES to build houses for people who lost everything to hurricane Katrina in 2005. I volunteered to work on the drywall crew, but when we arrived to find a shell waiting to be insulated and to have drywall installed, I thought I had made a mistake.

Fortunately, our crew included my brother John and Eric Kopy, who both have professional experience in building trades. Without them leading, teaching, and working side-by-side with us amateurs, we might have set IDES back a week or more in their schedule. I needed their support and guidance to make sure that my contribution actually helped.

I also needed the support of my sisters and sister-in-law ?Danelle, Michelle, and Megan. Without them taking a week and a half of vacation to come from Pennsylvania to take care of our three kids, Sandi and I would not have been able to go to Louisiana. And without the support of Pete Colley, they would have had to figure out some plumbing issues while we were gone.

I needed the support of Deni Martin, Mike Morrissey, and Keith Peters and the rest of the elders to take care of preaching and teaching and the office so that I could go to Louisiana. I needed the help of Beth Rhodes and the rest of my Sunday night class to make sure that things went smoothly. As I write this, thankful for those who helped while I was gone, I realize how much I depend on others every day, every week, and throughout the year.

Paul wrote in Romans 12:5: ?In Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. ? The body of Christ, the church, must get connected to support each other. Then God will use us to do things we would never have thought were possible.

Get Connected in Love

Our mission is simple: to love God and to love people. This isn ?t an artificial, greeting-card kind of love. It ?s the true love that comes from God. First John 4:10 tells us: ?This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. ? True love starts with God. And that love causes a reaction. John continues in verse 11: ?Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. ? That explains where we get our mission, and it explains how we are connected to God and to each other, through God ?s love.

But that connection isn ?t simply a matter of saying that God loves us and that we love God and that we love others. It defines how we live. The part we often miss is that God sent Jesus not just as an expression of his love but as the means for reconnecting with us. Jesus is the only way that we can ultimately reconnect with God and live with him forever in heaven.

That explains why we do the things that we do in our programs at Memorial. We are in the business of reconnecting people with God, and our reaction to God ?s message of reconciliation is to love him and to love others. So when we gather to worship and study God ?s Word, when we collect food and distribute it to those who need it, when we rehearse in choirs, when we bowl and play softball together, it ?s not simply a schedule of programs and activities; it ?s an on-going process of growing in our love for God and others. It ?s the heart of discipleship.

The end-product of our programs and activities isn ?t merely happy, active people who happen to love God and other people; it ?s growing, maturing disciples of Jesus Christ. John says in verses 16 and 17: ?Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. ? As we connect to God and each other in love, we become more like Jesus in this world so we can reconnect with God in heaven.

Get Connected in Peace

Last month I wrote about how we are connected with God and each other as we celebrate the Lord ?s Supper each week. Not only do we connect by participating in Jesus ? death through communion, but we also get connected with God as he made peace with us through Jesus ? death. Paul wrote in Ephesians 2:13, 14: ?But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ. For he himself is our peace, who has made the two one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility. ?

The peace that God has provided through Jesus ? death benefits us in several ways. First, as Paul says, it removes the hostility between mankind and God. Where our sins created a gap between us, God has bridged the gap.

Second, the peace that God provided gives Christians common ground. Paul goes on in Ephesians 4:4-6: ?There is one body and one Spirit ?just as you were called to one hope when you were called one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. ? While we ?re certainly not all the same ?as Paul says in verse 7: ?But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it we all share in the same faith and the same purpose. For that reason, Paul says in verse 3: ?Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. ?

Last, the peace that God provided, because it brings unity among Christians, gives us opportunities to share the Good News of that peace with unbelievers. That is, as we come near to God and as we become united with each other in peace, the body of Christ will truly live as God planned. Then, when unbelievers come among us as we worship, they will say, as Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 14:25: ?God is really among you! ?

Get Connected in Communion

With the election year in full-swing, we ?re experiencing our country ?s most fractious season. Friends, coworkers, and family members seem to be more willing to ?debate ? their differences, and it ?s not always pretty.

Sometimes Sunday mornings can be just as divided, as Christians with varied backgrounds and preferences interact within the worship service and Bible classes. But even with our opinions and traditions, we are part of one body, as Paul tells us in Ephesians 4:4-6: ?There is one body and one Spirit ?just as you were called to one hope when you were called one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. ?

Perhaps the best place to experience that is in communion, as we celebrate the Lord ?s Supper. Unlike elections, which bring people of opposing viewpoints into a common experience for one day and then allows us to stumble back to our corners to grumble and complain for another four years, communion unites individual believers as one body with a common purpose.

That purpose is not simply an act of uniformity. It is not simply a group-wide acknowledgement of Jesus ? sacrifice. It defines us. To be a Christian is to be ?Christ-like. ? In 1 Corinthians 10:16-17, Paul shows how communion does just that: ?Is not the cup of thanksgiving for which we give thanks a participation in the blood of Christ? And is not the bread that we break a participation in the body of Christ? Because there is one loaf, we, who are many, are one body, for we all partake of the one loaf. ? As we celebrate the Lord ?s Supper together each week, let us consider how communion helps us get connected with God, through Jesus ? sacrifice, and with each other.

Bridging the Gap Through Giving

The whole reason the church exists is to share the Good News of God ?s gift to the world, his son Jesus and the forgiveness of sins that he offers. As we focus on the season where even the world focuses on giving gifts, let us bridge the gap through our giving.

The obvious gap exists where the world doesn ?t know why Christmas exists. As Christians celebrate Christmas, even in simple gift-giving, we need to share the angel ?s message of Luke 2:10-11: ?Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. ?

Another gap exists between individuals. There are far too many broken families, friendships, and communities for us to celebrate the gift of reconciliation with God without attempting to reconcile with the people around us. Paul reminds us in Romans 5:8 that ?God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. ? If you ?re experiencing any kind of friction with someone you know, take the opportunity to follow God ?s example and give a ?peace offering ? to start the process of reconciliation.

There are many other gaps that we are working to bridge through our many ministry teams at the church. Many of those teams have to purchase materials and resources, and so we need to support those ministries by giving our money, our time, and our abilities.

The point is pretty obvious, we give because God gave to us. Our gifts can ?t compare to the gift of eternal life that God gave through Jesus, but if we don ?t try to bridge the gaps that exist, many people won ?t know that God has offered that gift to all people.

Bridging the Gap Joyfully

The season of Christmas provides the best opportunities to bridge the gap. It ?s a time when families come together, despite their dysfunction. It ?s a time when communities come together, despite their differences. It ?s the time when the most people are made aware of the name of Jesus, whether they recognize who he is or not. It ?s the best time for Christians to share the joy of Jesus in the most diverse ways possible.

Because the world focuses on the gift-giving aspect of Christmas, Christians can focus on the gift-giving aspect of God ?s love for the world. Most people welcome gifts with joy, and if Christians can celebrate with joy the love of God for the world, the world may be more receptive to the message of John 3:16, ?For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. ?

Because the world is in awe of the spectacle of its celebration of Christmas, Christians can add to the wonder by telling the story of the birth of Jesus. Come on, angels? That ?s cool! If Christians can get excited about the nativity story that we know and love, then maybe the world can become excited and more receptive to the angel ?s message of Luke 2:10 ?The angel said to them, ?Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.

Because the world seems to be hungry for hope and willing to believe that there can be hope despite the tragedies of war, poverty, crime, and broken families, Christians can help satisfy that hunger by celebrating the birth of the Prince of Peace. If Christians can live joyfully with their hope in God, perhaps the world will be more receptive to the message of Romans 15:13 ?May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

Bridging the Gap Through Prayer for Each Other

The sermon on Sunday, November 4, encouraged us to ?do everything without complaining, ? (Philippians 2:14). Easier said than done, right? Much of the complaining we do comes from differences in personality, background, and measures of faith. We ?re not all at the same level of spiritual maturity; so we experience friction. As we strive be unified in faith and knowledge of Jesus and to be mature (Ephesians 4:13), we need to bridge that gap among us.

While studying Scripture is the most obvious thing we can do on our own, it ?s very likely that overcoming these issues that seem to separate us most dramatically will require divine intervention. In other words, we need to pray for each other. Paul wrote in Ephesians 6:18, 19: ?Pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints. Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel. ?

First Paul tells us to pray ?on all occasions with all kinds of prayers. ? Paul restates it simply in 1 Thessalonians 5:17: ?Pray continually. ? If there ?s something bugging you, pray about it whenever and however you can.

Second, Paul tells us to ?be alert ? and always pray for each other. We need to pay attention to the hurts and needs of our brothers and sisters in Christ and then pray for each other. If you don ?t know about the specific needs within our church, come to the Wednesday afternoon prayer meeting from 1:15 to 2:15 in Mark ?s office. Everyone is welcome.

Last, Paul asks for prayer for himself as he ministers. We ?re all ministering in different ways among different people. Since we all have different measures of faith and understanding of Scriptures, perhaps the most effective way to spread the Gospel is to pray that God will give each of us the right words in any and all circumstances. I know I need the help.

Bridging the Gap as a Family

Sunday, October 21, was a great family reunion. After our regular three services, during which we find ourselves segregated at opposite ends of the building for various reasons, we came together to ordain deacons, an elder, and a minister. There were children, teens, young adults, parents, and grandparents all sitting together, singing together, celebrating together.
Paul tells us in Romans 8 that the Holy Spirit himself testifies that we are a family, that we are children of God. We can find the language of family all throughout the New Testament. Paul and other writers refer to each other and to us as brothers and sisters. There ?s no question that the church is one big extended family.
OK, we know what our families are like behind closed doors, and sometimes our church family acts the same way. But that ?s not what God intended, for either family. Our brother John gives us this advice in 1 John 3:18: ?Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth. ? Sure, we say we love each other, but do we act like we do all the time? We ?re not perfect, and I know that I ?m not as lovable as I ought to be, but we need to act more like the children of God. There needs to be something different about this family because there ?s certainly something different about our Father, and he wants to adopt everyone into this family!
How do we do it? Let ?s start with some advice from brother Paul in Philippians 2:14, 15: ?Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe. ? First, we need to try to get along with each other better; find our common ground and start there ?October 21 was a great start! Second, we need to encourage each other as we become blameless and pure. Last we need to shine like stars so that the world can see that the church family is different. In these ways we can bridge the gap as a family.