Get Connected Through the Truth

The sermon series that we are going through right now, ?Life360, ? has been exciting to preach. The sermon on April 27 dealt with ?Faith: Broadband Beliefs, ? the idea that our faith is developed when we hear, read, and study the Bible and then live it out. The exciting part of that sermon was the realization that, even though each of us has an individual faith, we are connected by the common beliefs of the Bible. OK, we ?ve probably understood that at a very basic level, that we share biblical beliefs in common. However, not only do we have common understanding of facts found in the Bible, but that foundational faith connects us together.

The sermon pointed out Hebrews 10:25, which tells us to meet together and to encourage each other. About what? We went back to Hebrews 2:1 for the answer: ?We must pay more careful attention, therefore, to what we have heard, so that we do not drift away. ?

If we truly want to live the ?abundant life ? that Jesus promises us (John 10:10), we need to hold on to what we have heard from God ?s Word, and we need to read it and study it, and then we need to live it. But we don ?t have to do it on our own. We are members of one body, and we need to continue meeting together so we can encourage each other and make sure that ?we do not drifty away. ?

Obviously, we cannot neglect coming together to worship on Sunday morning. It ?s the best place to find the core of discipleship ?worship, study, fellowship, service, witnessing, and prayer ?all in one place. I ?d suggest, however, that the single hour is only a portion of what we need to connect to each other through the truth of the Bible. If you ?re not a member of one of our Sunday morning Adult Bible Fellowship groups, start checking them out and find one where you can connect with adults who are near your age or who are in your stage of life. These groups meet to study the Bible and to fellowship, encouraging each other so that we do not drift away.

Get Connected in Prayer

I ?m not good at relationships, but I ?m getting better. How do I know? Well, God and I communicate a lot more than we did before, and more and more frequently, we communicate about other people.

I suspect that my prayer life has been a lot like most people ?s: about my needs, when I have needs. But that started to change dramatically when I began participating in a men ?s group in Cincinnati. We spent a lot of time in fellowship, talking about our week, sharing our struggles, encouraging each other, and studying the Bible, but we spent most of our time in prayer.

I had never experienced such prayer times before ?sometimes as long as half an hour. While that really isn ?t a long time, considering there were about six to eight of us any given night, it was a long time for a bunch of guys. We started praying those perfunctory prayers: ?Thank you, God, for this and that ? and ?God bless us all ?; we were just on auto-pilot. At some point, our prayers changed. Instead of praying for someone who had an illness, we boldly asked for healing. Instead of thanking God for his power, we openly thanked him for deliverance from addiction. We prayed about promotions, parenting skills, and even traffic tickets.

The thing is, I can ?t say whether our prayers changed because we got closer or whether we got closer because of our prayers. Either way, it ?s clear that there ?s a connection between our relationships and our prayers. In his letter of encouragement to Timothy, Paul writes: ?I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone ? (1 Timothy 2:1). If you would like to grow the connections you have with your brothers and sisters in Christ, grab a copy of the weekly prayer list at the welcome center or ask to have it sent to your email address and join us Wednesdays at 1:15 in Mark ?s office for the weekly prayer meeting.

Thank you, Dr. Bungu!

This past Sunday, April 6, Dr. Zindoga Bungu brought us the morning’s message. Dr. Bungu is the head of Moshoko Christian Hospital, which we support through As He Is USA.

Dr. Bungu began at Ephesians 5:15, 16: “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” Citing examples of the political unrest of his country, Zimbabwe, and the many physical ailments of the people who are treated at the hospital and the many spiritual obstacles the people whom he ministers to have to face, Dr. Bungu compared our lives today to what the prophet Daniel faced. Encouraging us from Daniel chapter 6, where Daniel faces a den of lions rather than praying to the king of Babylon, Dr. Bungu challenged us to dare to live with character, to dare to stand alone, to dare to live with a firm purpose, and to dare to make that purpose known.

The Wednesday night Bible study I call “Sunday Footnotes” discusses the previous Sunday’s message, and we talked about Dr. Bungu’s sermon. And from our discussion, I came away with a thought that isn’t really new as much as it is something we all probably don’t think about as much as we should. We often look at the account of Daniel in the lions’ den as an example of living with character, having a firm purpose, and making that purpose known, even if it means standing alone—but most often for our own sake.

When we stand firm for God’s truth, even in the face of persecution that could result in our own death, we most often think of that in the context of safeguarding our own relationship with God and ensuring our own spiritual safety. While that is the most obvious result of “daring to be like Daniel,” I realized in our Wednesday night study that it’s also a matter of concern for other people’s spiritual health and restoration.

If we choose to “dare to be like Daniel,” as Dr. Bungu challenged us, then not only do we live up to the life of holiness to which God has called us, but we also give others something to hold onto. That is, when we stand firm on God’s truth, we can become a point to which someone else can tether themselves to God’s holiness, but if we choose to go along with the crowd, then we take away what could be someone else’s link to God’s truth and holiness.

Did Daniel convert the Babylonians by standing firm? No. But they did get to see God’s truth and faithfulness and power in action, and the king reacted to it. For some people, that’s enough to get started on the path to seeking God with a growing passion. The potential for drawing other people closer to God should add to our resolve to “dare to be like Daniel.”

Get Connected Through Membership

For some reason, church membership is a tough topic. Reading the New Testament, it seems the early church understood that when you become a Christian, you are a ?member ? of the church. Just as when a child is born he becomes part of the family, when a person is ?reborn ? they become part of the church family. Just as there are roles, rights, and responsibilities to fulfill within a family, the early church seemed to understand the same for being a Christian.

Today we seem to believe that being a member of a church is like being a member of any other organization, and so we come and go as we please, withhold our support when we are angry, and pick and choose how and when we participate and even submit to the authority of the leaders. Maybe it ?s because we have a lot of choices among churches or because it ?s so easy to place, transfer, or quit membership. Whatever the reason, we seem to forget that being a member of the church is more like being a member of a body or a family. We recognize the tragedy of broken families, and we are disgusted by the thought of a dismembered body, but we don ?t always place such importance on the connections we have as the body of Christ.

Even though ?membership ? isn ?t a requirement for being a Christian, we must recognize the connectedness we have to each other because of our own relationships with Christ. Paul writes about this in Ephesians 2:19-22: ?You are no longer foreigners and aliens, but fellow citizens with God’s people and members of God’s household, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone. In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord. And in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit. ? The church is not a loose association by simple choice; we are connected to each other because we are members of the body of Christ. Let ?s continue to work together as he builds us into that holy dwelling.

While My Sugar Gently Creeps (A Diabetic’s Lament)

By Bruce E. Stoker © 2008

I look at them all, see the donuts there heaping,
While my sugar gently creeps.
I look at my belt and see my navel peeping.
Still my sugar gently creeps.

I don’t know why nobody told you
Not to bring snacks I love,
And I don’t know why someone cajoled you
They caught and fooled you.

I think of the scales and consider its spinning,
While my sugar gently creeps.
With every sweet cake I will surely be sinning;
Still my sugar gently creeps.

And I don’t know why you came “desserted”;
You were subverted too!
And I don’t know why jelly was squirted.
No one alerted you?

I look at them all, see the calories seeping,
While my sugar gently creeps.
I look at them all.
Still my sugar gently creeps.

—With apologies to the Beatles….

Bald Spot Update

OK, my friend Adam told me, upon closer inspection, that he doesn’t believe that this is cause for any concern. I believe him because he is an expert:

Adam's Credentials

In his expert opinion, my bald spot is not a case of male pattern baldness but evidence of previous head trauma. This makes a lot of sense. Apparently I am blocking the incident from my childhood, but my parents tell me that one of my younger sisters once hit me on the head with a blunt object—a steel baton, I believe.

While I am not specifically concerned about baldness in general, I am somewhat relieved.

Now, however, I believe I have to research childhood head injuries and whether they have been linked to mental health issues in adulthood. It might explain some other things that concern me. I’ll keep you posted.

Don't Panic, But I Have a Bald Spot

Just thought you should know that my wife found a bald spot on the top of my head.

Bruce's Bald Spot

Sunday morning, before church, she was giving me a haircut (3/4″ on top and 1/2″ on the sides; Wahl clippers—best investment ever), and she noticed a dime-sized spot that is missing hair. It’s slightly off-center, toward the back and right of my head (in case you’re inclined to look).

I’m not panicking because (1) I don’t “really” care and (2) I’m guessing that it has been there for quite some time but has gone unnoticed.

If I have any real reason to be concerned, it’s that I might actually be an adult. I’ve been trying to come to grips with that for several years, but it’s not sinking in completely. This may be the wake-up call. Of course, if a job, marriage, and kids haven’t been able to convince me, a little follicular sparsity may not phase me either.

Get Connected by Giving

I hate money. While I enjoy the pleasures that come from what money can buy (as my indulgences in coffee, dining out, and computers will testify), there ?s just too much effort that must go into making money, tracking money, and even spending money. I know that there ?s more than a bit of laziness in my attitude: it ?s difficult to figure out money, so I just try to avoid it.

The hard reality is that money is a necessary tool that we must use wisely or it can hurt us. Another hard reality, specifically here at Memorial, is that while there are a few areas where we could cut back more in our spending, we ?re at a point where the effort to save our nickels and dimes is becoming counterproductive. To put it bluntly, the bigger problem we are facing is that we are not giving in such a way that would indicate we are a healthy body.

Without trying to launch a guilt trip or to call attention to anyone ?s financial stability, let ?s consider together, as a body, how we can get connected by giving. First, we get connected to God through giving because it recognizes that everything we have comes from God (James 1:17). Second, we get connected to each other through giving because we develop the attitude that the first church had; Acts 4:32 says that ?All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they shared everything they had. ?

It ?s no secret that our region, and by extension our families and our church family, is facing tough times. And it ?s easy to go into ?cutback mode, ? but let ?s not lose sight of the eternal significance of even our monthly bills. Because we are connected as one body, because we must be ?one in heart and mind, ? we share the responsibility of supporting the body by giving our money. It may be more difficult for some of us than others, but let ?s take Paul ?s advice in 1 Timothy 6:17 and not put our hope in money, which is uncertain, but put our hope in God ?who richly provides us with everything. ?

Chile Life in Color

by Bruce E. Stoker 2003

Gleaming white,
Cut from fiery membranes,
Chile seeds dry on paper towels.
Inky black,
Musky aroma of moist earth,
Potting soil cradles dormant seeds.
Budding green,
Tender coolness of new leaves,
Seedlings absorb lifegiving rays.
Shimmering gold,
Waves of glowing, vibrant heat,
Sunshine stores itself in piquant fruit.
Vibrant green,
Bobbing in rare summer breezes,
Leaves shade raging chiles.
Flaming red,
Prompting both dread and desire,
Chiles flaunt volcanic flavor.

Vices of a Fat Guy

By Bruce E. Stoker 2003

Bacon sizzling in the pan.
Caramel drizzled over flan.
Chunks of beef in chile sauce.
Dressing coated cabbage floss.
Cream cheese frosted carrot cake.
Extra malt in chocolate shake.
Powdered sugar on fried dough.
Pasta robed with alfredo.
Shrimp and fish, lightly battered.
Scrambled eggs, hot sauce splattered.
Salsa dips with heat to spare.
T-bone steak grilled medium rare.